Jane Prefers her Wings

05.18.11


Jane was an early walker. She was toddling around my house by nine months, and on first birthday as I prepared food for guests she stood on my dining room table jumping for the chandelier. Jane is an athlete, but she’s not overly competitive, she just wants to play.

Jane was happy in motion, and her motion has always taken her away from me. I’ve stood proud, watching my daughter assert her independence. We’ve given her roots and wings, she prefers the wings.

This summer Jane is going on a ten day canoeing, rock climbing and camping trip with Outward Bound. I remember my own first camping trips and how I felt alive in ways I’d never expected. I remember the smells and the sounds, the heat of the sun and the chill of the water. I remember not caring about anything except what was right in front of me. I’m excited for Jane to have all of that. For four of the days she is gone Alexander, too, will be away at camp. His will be less of an adventure, but to be fair he’s only nine.

Their independence both delights and terrifies me.

 

 

 

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7 responses to “Jane Prefers her Wings”

  1. the thought of away trips  right now, frightens me to death. I’m hoping that the ability to relinquish some control of my children, or at the very least, allow some space between us comes in time..as I age..perhaps some wisdom will come or just some forgetfulness so that I forget to be so tethered:)

  2. The JackB says:

     That sounds like an incredible trip. I always wanted to participate in an Outward Bound program. My son left on a school trip today. It is his first flight without parents- exciting and a bit nerve wracking all at once.

  3. Alison says:

    Wow that sounds like a great trip! I have never done anything like that but I hope she has a blast! Alexander too. I always wanted to go to a summer camp… I’m going to have to make sure my kids get to experience it when they are older so that I can live through them. :)

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